Thursday, June 16, 2011

That's Just My Baby-Daddy

That's just my baby daddy is a saying that is all too common these days. This very popular term is used recklessly, carelessly and without hesitation to describe most relationships of the 21 century. To most women, the term baby daddy constantly reminds them of the pain and suffering they put up with on a day to day base, wishing they could take back what has already been done. Some women wear the term with honor because they get to say, "Girl that’s just my baby- daddy". But where did this term come from and what does it mean? The Oxford English Dictionary defines baby-daddy as "the father of a woman's child, who is not her husband or (in most cases) her current or exclusive partner." The term baby-daddy takes it's origin in Jamaica where on the island, your baby-mother or baby-father is typically someone with whom you are no longer romantically involved. If you called your husband your "baby-father," he might be insulted—the term suggests biological fatherhood in the absence of any real parenting. The linguistics professor Peter L. Patrick, who studies Jamaican Creole, said the terms "definitely imply there is not a marriage—not even a common-law marriage—but rather that the child is an 'outside' child."

This term is in all actuality a foul and low term which denotes the relationship between a father and his child. The child is considered a bastard child to the secular society, which is one of the lowest name any child could be called. As you see this term baby-daddy takes it's origin in the black community which. Baby daddy is not just some name to be played around with loosely, but it tells a cutting history of two people who brings life into the world in broken fellowship. Because of this broken fellowship, the child must grow up in a broken home. You must realize that every sexually decision you make in your life outside of wed-lock carries a curse and consequence you may have to live with for the rest of your life. Just because it feels good doesn't mean it's good for you.

What does the God say about this? I'm glad you asked. When God created mankind, He created sexual creatures, "Then God blessed them, and said to them, "Be fruitful and multiply; fill the earth and subdue it;." Genesis 1:28 (NKJV). As you can see this was a command for the married couple to have sexual relations and produce children. God declared this act of love to be good. Marriage is very important to God because it paints a true picture of who God really is. Genesis 2:24(NKJV) "Therefore a man shall leave his father and mother and be joined to his wife, and they shall become one flesh." God only honors sex in marriage between one man and one woman. God does not honor couples and He definitely does not honor homosexual relations. God does not honor same sex marriage for it is an abomination." Marriage is honorable among all, and the bed undefiled; but fornicators and adultery God will judge." Hebrews 13:4 (NKJV).

God does not create broken homes nor is He pleased with baby-momma, baby-daddy relationships. This is a deception that comes from Satan, who wants you to believe that fornication is ok when it is not. God does not honor sex between a boyfriend and a girlfriend. These types of relationships are gross in the eyes of God. Those who tell you otherwise are liars and will be judged as such. 1 Timothy 4:7(NKJV) But rejects profane and old wives' fables, and exercise yourself toward godliness. Do not believe fables and fairy tales concerning sex because God is the only and final authority concerning sex or anything else concerning mankind. So as you see the term baby-daddy and baby-momma is a curse which takes its spiritual origin from Satan himself. Satan is the father of lies and everything he says concerning sex is a lie from the depths of hell itself. Don’t be the victim of baby-daddy, baby-momma stronghold or curses. God is here today to heal and deliver every one of us from this curse and sin. 1 John 1:9 (NKJV) "If we confess our sins, He is faithful and just to forgive us our sins and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness." Jesus is waiting to heal and forgive us of our past just like He did the woman who was at the well prostituting her body.

It is my prayer that this will forever change your life and cause you to rethink your life and choose to have a relationship with Jesus because He is waiting for you. God bless!

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