One of the most difficult pains we can experience is the loss of a relationship either a friend or a lover. Knowing that someone will no longer be able to be involved in your life hurts. Even when you know that the relationship wasn’t good for one or both of you. At first it’s usually the anger that hits. You play back in your mind all the things that you think went wrong, and all the hurtful things that might have been said or done, but as soon as the loneliness sets in the anger is pushed aside by the hurt, and sadness.
We never want to be alone, nor were we meant to be alone. The trick is being in the right situations. The first thing to keep in mind is that nothing is meant to last forever. With each day we grow and we change. What and who worked for us yesterday may not work for us tomorrow, and sometimes we grow apart from people that we care about. I have a saying that I live by "You can't have something new if your closet is full". If you know not only what you want, but what you need in your life then you have to make room for it.
Knowing who you are, what you want, what you need, and where you’re going is the first step to having the like-minded people in your life. It is the most important step to having healthy and equal relationships. We all deserve to be happy and I don't believe that your personal happiness is something that you should compromise on just so you won't be alone.
Separation is hard, but it’s important to not sit around feeling sorry for yourself, but to get out and do things that make you feel good. Because if you are feeling good and loving life you will bring more of what makes you feel good into your life.
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